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Friday, September 12, 2008

Blessed

This week Emily is well into her routine. She moves and twists every two or three hours. I love watching her moving from one spot to the other. It was funny that one morning David was playing piano while I watched my belly button fluctuating like a fishing bob, suddenly a hill was built up and blocked my view of the belly button. The hill was so prominent that I was sure it was either her bottom or head. David joked, "she was sitting up to listen to the music!"

We bought more things for Emily: 159 classic video tapes collection for kids. Each tape costs less than 70 cents! Neither David nor I watched those movies when we were little. But we heard about all the titles. David said, "Can you imagine all three of us sitting in the couch watching these Disney movies?!"

I'm so grateful that I'm feeling great so far except the swelling feet and legs in the end of the day. I had to alternate between standing and sitting frequently. But that's really not a big deal. I'm also thankful for our friends who sent their early baby gifts. It was such a pleasant surprise to see the packages waiting at the door! And the very first package was from our Friendspeak readers!

Tom came over for dinner Tuesday night. His mom was in the hospital. He just had a long day. So David invited him to our house. Besides Tom, we saw another guest who was not invited: it was a big gray cat of our neighbors. See what he was doing:












Andrew and Jamie came over for dinner Thursday night. They are missionary couple in China. Starting next month, they will begin to work with Gary and Danita. We really enjoyed the evening with them. By the way, David and I made the fried Okra. It was delicious! Andrew especially liked it. Jamie were more interested in the baby books about teaching babies languages. Below is a picture of us. David, George, Andrew and Jamie are going to meet with LST on Friday talking about the future plans. Gary sent out a link to some pictures of the adopted children at the Paralympics: http://picasaweb.google.com/jacksongardan/ParalympicWeekend908#











This week's the Bible verses are from Phillipians. David was trying to learn how to pray from Paul by studying his prayers for others. "And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God."

Monday, September 8, 2008

God Be with You Till We Meet Again

I learned from David that I could take the bereavement leave instead of the vacation leave for Granny's funeral service. Amy and Kendall arrived at around 1:00pm. David and I had the 30th week checkup in the morning before we all headed up to Tulsa. We were glad that the baby is doing great. The doctor looked at my bruised toe nail and told us it might get off my toe any time.

We got to Tulsa at around 6:00pm. Chloe did great - another 8-hour trip for a 6 month old in one week! Dad's friend brought us some food. They were delicious, especially the fried Okcra - I'll have to make it some day soon!

Early Friday morning, we saw the message that Kyri's Charlie was born! She was in peaceful sleep with Jeff and Kyri. David was glad that we have an excuse to see them since we signed up for bringing the food for them. We can't wait to meet little Charlie!

Granny's funeral was in Muskogee. We got there at around 9:40am. It was a small service for family and friends. Granny's church is going to have another service on Tuesday. David and I got to see many of his relatives whom we don't see very often. After the pastor finished his speech, David stood up and shared his memories about Granny: her serving heart; her love for people and food; her interest in many things; etc. Granny's birthday picture took all of us from tears to laughters - it was a picture of Granny with a tiarra and pink lei and a big smile. I'm sure many many people will miss Granny badly! David found out from Granny's notes that her favorite song was "In The Garden". But the song of "God Be with You Till We Meet Again" played in my mind again and again. Below are a picture of David and Granny and a picture of a garden that I imagine Granny was in.

Dad's church friends prepared lunch for us. It was a wonderful meal. We enjoyed visiting with them too. For the afternoon, we just spent time with families. We found many old photos from Granny's apartment. I really enjoyed looking through those family pictures and the notes in Granny's Bible.


It was a cool day Saturday. We headed back after breakfast. Amy and Kendall had another three hours to drive. Wished there was an express transportation that can take them back to Austin in minutes! David and I met with Leslie for dinner. He was always energetic. It was nice to know that he decided to support Darren's ministry in Colorado.

It was the first Sunday that David and I went back to our old building. Unfortunately the paint fume was still too strong for me. So I stayed outside with one of our elder's wife. David was coordinating the communion. Four of us took the communion outside the door.

We met with Fred, Fang and their two boys for lunch after church. Fred bought David a very nice weather radio. He really didn't have to spend that money since he has two boys to raise. Cody and Evan had great time with David looking at the fish in the fishtank. By the time we were ready to leave, Even told his parents, "I want to go with Mr. David!" Fang said, "But Mom and Dad and Cody are not going with Mr. David. Is that OK?" Evan nodded his head. He came with us to the car. Finally David took him to his parents. That reminded me of my childhood when I wished my aunt or uncle would take me to their houses for sometime. Grass is always greener on the other side for kids! At the Chinese supermarket, we saw a Friendspeak reader. Later we knew that he just got a job offer from Chase bank! David and I had a short nap before we picked up three girls from UTD. Two of them just came to American 20 days ago. Friendspeak was full again. I got to meet David's friend Aksana from Russia. It was great to see Peggy, Maggie and Alex. Below is a picture of us with three new Friendspeak readers.

David and I often thought about how Dad is doing. We pray that he will have an easy adjustment.










"God be with you till we meet again; by his counsels guide, uphold you; with his sheep securely fold you. God be with you till we meet again.

God be with you till we meet again; when life's perils thick confound you, put his arms unfailing round you. God be with you till we meet again.

God be with you till we meet again; keep love's banner floating over you; smite death's threatning wave before you. God be with you till we meet again.

Till we meet, till we meet, till we meet at Jesus' feet; Till we meet, till we meet, God be with you till we meet again."

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Update

Granny's funeral is Friday. Amy and Kendall are going to drive over tomorrow (Thursday) around noon. Then we will head over to Tulsa together. David still doesn't feel well. He took half day off again today just to gather his energy for the trip tomorrow.

This isn't the best week. But there are some bright spots that make us excited. One UTD girl sent emails to us that she heard about Friendspeak from her friend who came to Friendspeak the first time last week. She wanted to come this Sunday. She said she is not a Christian yet. But she studied Bible when she was in China and she wanted to continue to study it. She ordered the Bible online after she came to America. But she hasn't received it. Another UTD Ph.D student wanted to come to church with us this Sunday. She was introduced by our former Friendspeak reader who moved away. I also got an email from Andy that he wanted to bring his two friends to Friendspeak tonight... We just can't be moodless with so many seeking hearts!

David and I are going to meet with George Miller, Mark and Sherylee Woodward (the founder of Let's Start Talking) for dinner to talk about the possibility of Prestoncrest becoming one of the Centurion Churches. I think Prestoncrest has the potential to become one. We'll see.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Happy Birthday Sweetheart!

Last Thursday night, we had the accountability group meeting. It was a wonderful time to catch up with the girls, especially that was the last meeting before Kyri's Charlie is born. September 4th, another princess will say "hello" to the world! David read with Mike at home. When I got home, I noticed that he already cleaned the house and wiped the kitchen floor. What a husband!

Friday, Amy and Kendall drove over during the lunch time. David and I got off work at 3:00pm. Then we headed off to Tulsa. It was a treat for us to ride with Chloe all the way. She was such a good girl. The only activitites that she did during the four-hour ride were: laughing, sleeping, eating, touching, and biting her toys. She got excited everytime she saw Presley. It was so cute to watch her reaching out her arms to Presley and waiting Presley to pick her up! We arrived Tulsa at around 8:30pm. Dad came home from the hospital at around 9. Granny didn't do well.

Saturday morning we all went to the hospital to see Granny. She was more sick than we thought. David didn't feel well either. We rested after coming back from the hospital.

Sunday we decided to see Granny in the morning. To our surprise, the doctor took off the life support. Granny could breathe on her own! We all had our hope up that she's going to get over this and come home for Thanksgiving! Since Granny was doing better, we left after lunch. David had his early birthday before we came back to Dallas.

Monday is the Labor Day. David still didn't feel 100 percent well. We mainly rested and messed around in the house. Dad said Granny was moved out of the ICU and she was doing better.

Today is David's birthday! Happy Birthday Sweetheart! Dad, Amy, Robert C., etc. called him to say Happy Birthday. David went to work for half a day. But he still didn't feel well. So he came back home to rest. Hope he will feel better soon! This year, I didn't do anything special for my sweetheart. Nothing I do can really express my feelings to him. To me, he is a spiritual leader who reads Bible everyday and discusses what he learned with me during the meal; he is a loving husband who uses himself as the body pillow when we stayed at Dad's house without a body pillow and rubs my feet all the time; he is my best friend who gets up to guide me to the restroom in the darkness and takes me back to bed after I come out; he is a loving father who talks to Emily and plays piano for her all the time before we meet her; he reads the baby books whenever he has time and studies Chinese diligiently; he is an enthusiastic cheerleader who always advocates and supports my decisions; he is a cheerful giver who always gives his time, encouragement, and material things to others ... I am the luckiest wife in the world! I can't imagine where I would be without him. He is making difference each day in my world!

We got word this morning that Granny passed away sometime between 11:00pm last night and early this morning. The funeral details are pending. As David said, "Granny went fast. But she lived a long and good life!" It's such a pity that Emily doesn't have a chance to see her. But I'm sure Emily will hear about her great Granny's stories constantly.






Thursday, August 28, 2008

Last Week of August

The second Glucose test came back perfect! No more needles!! As the due date comes closer, I began to investigate some other options: birthing center, doula, etc. I've heard many good things about them. I'm also interviewing some pediatricians in Plano and Frisco area. Hopefully we'll make a decision soon. Next week, I'll be in the last 10 weeks of the pregnancy! Emily now weighs about 2 1/2 pounds (like a butternut squash) and is over 15 inches long from head to heel. With her rapid growth, her nutrition needs reach their peak during this time - eat more protein, calcium, folic acid and iron!

David has been busy coordinating the pickup for the new students who wanted to come to Friendspeak. Three from UTD and two from SMU. Since we are going to be in Tulsa this weekend, we had to find replacement to drive them to church. David found three couples who will give them a ride this weekend. We hope that the campus ministry will start soon so that the transportation will not be a major issue any more.

Granny is not doing very well. We'll continue praying for her healing. Amy and Kendall are driving over tomorrow and then we will head over to Tulsa tomorrow night. I'm sure Granny will be glad to see Chloe for the first time!

Monday, August 25, 2008

The Busiest Week

David's work has been busy this week and last week. He had to work overtime on Tuesday. After we had dinner, David got a call from Jason that he was cold last night because he didn't have any bedding in the dormitory. We brought some blanket, sheet, and pillow and drove off to SMU. Luckily David was familiar with that area. We took Jason to Target to buy the things he needed. When we got home, it was after 11:00pm.


I stayed at home Wednesday while David read with two readers. I did the grocery shopping, laundry and cooking. Time flew by quickly.



Thursday morning was my one-hour Glucose tolerance test. I had banana and sweet bun for breakfast, fasted for two hours and took the sweet solution at 11:00am. David met with me at the hospital at 11:30am. The regular checkup looked fine. I gained 4 lbs - right on target! David and I went to the breastfeeding class at 6:30pm. We learned a lot in those 3 and half hours. We were very tired after the class.



B1 class had the Mongolia and Asian mission presentation on Friday night. We wished we could go. But we decided to stay at home. I was glad that David's headache was gone. He had so much on his shoulder everyday. A side note about Granny - she fell during the weekend and went to the hospital. Her friend brought her a birthday cake in the hospital. She's been in great pain this week. We pray that she will get better and get out of the hospital soon!



David and I had the childbirth class the whole day Saturday. The class was scheduled from 9:00am to 4:00pm. But the instructor didn't show up. As a compensation, we all got four free valet parkings and a free baby sign language class. The substitute instructor came at 9:45am. She was very good. The class covered everything about pre-labor, labor, and early days with the baby: anatomy and physiology of the birth process, pain control, birth options, cesarean birth, and a hospital tour. We were stuffed with information. Hopefully we can still remember it when the time is right. Saturday evening, David and I went to UTD to attend the Chinese new students welcome party. David's reader Mike (the president of the Chinese student association) invited David to talk about Friendspeak. Several students asked about Friendspeak afterwards. Two girls already wanted to attend the class.



We didn't visit any church this Sunday morning - this way we tried all the scenarios. We'll be back to our regular schedule next weekend. It was great to see Nikki and Cole during the service. Cole was so cute! David and I visited with Dawn and Jerrod after the service - we always enjoy visiting with them! Then we drove to SMU to pick up Rusi and her friend Xuna for Friendspeak. It was the first time for both of them to attend Friendspeak. They really enjoyed reading with their workers. After we took them back to their apartments, we had a quick dinner at BlackEyedPea's. Then we realized that we missed the Olympics closing ceremony. Well, I already fell out of the loop since I only watched 2 minutes Olympics. David did much better - he watched probably 15 minutes in total. Two UTD new students need pickup for Friendspeak next Sunday. David called around to arrange the pickup. We are actively working to setup a Friendspeak site on UTD campus and SMU campus. Hope the pickup issue will be resolved after that. I went to bed early because I was scheduled for the three-hour Glucose test - I failed the one-hour test (blame on the sweet buns and the banana!).



This morning I took the Glucose test - the solution was twice as sweet as the first time. They drew the blood from my arms four times after the drink. I did feel a little nauscious this time - my body never had so much sugar at one time before! Hopefully I'll pass the test this time. Emily really moves a lot. I feel more of her movement than her kicks now. A few days ago, I noticed the reapetative pulse like activities. It felt like a heartbeat but much slower. Normally it last for 2 or 3 minutes with 30 times per minute. I asked the doctor. He told me it's the baby hiccups!



Below is a picture of Rusi and Xuna (with Robert, Gail, and me). They just came to America two weeks ago ...



Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Happy Birthday Granny!!!

Yesterday was our one-year anniversary of engagement! It certainly didn't feel like one year. Today the exciting feeling of marrying to my best friend and to the man who I admire in so many ways is still as fresh as it was one year ago. For the people who don't know, David proposed on the traditional Chinese Valentine's Day and neither of us realized it until afterwards.

David and I had dinner with Nathan and Amy at Red Hot Blue last night. Then we headed off to the airport to pick up another new student Jason from HongKong. The flight was one hour late. But we left the airport in half an hour. It took us a while to find Jason's apartment. After we dropped him off, it was 9:30pm already. David was very tired since it was a long day for him. We didn't make it to Debra and Lance's Ukraine game night.

Today is Granny's 93th birthday! Happy Birthday Granny! When David talked to Dad about taking granny over this week, Dad said "I'll have to talk to her a month in advance to clear her busy schedule!" Granny is busy!!! A couple of weeks ago, she went to the hospital because of her racing heart. David called her. She told us how delicious the hospital food was. We never heard anyone liked the hospital food yet. I'm wondering what she is doing today: running between the birthday parties? playing games? walking in the mall? ... Wish we will have her energy when we are that age!

Nathan is having the surgery today. We pray that everything goes well and the cancer will be completely gone after this. David and I are often encouraged by our friends who face these trials in life with poise, faith, and strength. Go Nathan! It will be better.

Monday, August 18, 2008

A Cool Weekend

It finally cools down a little bit after the long-needed rain. I looked up the weather channel that it will be cool for the whole week!

This Saturday David cleaned the garage and put the things we don't need in the car so that we could give them away to the new students. After lunch, we drove off to the UTD campus. We called our Friendspeak reader Peggy to see whether she needed anything. She let us to put everything in her apartment and she will give them away later. It saved us lots of time and energy! We visited her new apartment which turned out to be the one that two of my old friends lived before. We are happy to know that she is on vacation now. She will go to Friendspeak this Sunday and attend the International Christian Fellowship next Friday. She's been attending an American church in Richardson.

After the grocery shopping, we came home and began to prepare for the dinner. Heidi, Hongyu and Sandy were our guests. They arrived at 6:00pm. We ate and talked until 9:30pm. David and I really enjoyed spending time with them. Below is a picture of us after the dinner.











We went to Greenville Oaks COC this Sunday. We felt like home since there were so many of our old friends: Nathan and Amy; Lori and Billy; Amy and Wes; Robin and Richard; Ron and LaJohnna; Kevin and Emily; Jennifer and David; Kate and Brian; etc. We met two of their elders and talked to several other people who were related to Prestoncrest. During the service, I saw a familiar face - it was my co-worker who sits at the other side of the floor! We were surrounded by friends after the service. So many people to talk to - and we still haven't figured out a way of talking to many people at the same time and not to make anyone feel left out!

After grabbing some food from Grandy's, we were off to Prestoncrest. Luckily David had a skill to eat and drive at the same time - we only had four minutes to eat lunch. The chicken thighs tasted especially good. David suggested that someday we open a chicken restaurant in China! We got to the class right on time. I was happily surprised that Hongyu was in the class already. Keith taught Matthew chapter 3. The building was still under construction. I could smell the paint fume even in our classroom. But one hour of the exposure should be fine. Hongyu went with us to the service also. That really exceeded our expectations because we thought he might want to go home and watch the Olympics. When I saw that there was no pages for the notes in the bulletin. I thought it would be a very casual message by someone other than Bob. I prayed that whoever deliver the sermon would speak to Hongyu. It turned out that Matt Mazza did the sermon. It was a great message on encouragement. Hongyu later told us that he liked the sermon very much.

In the beginning of the sermon, we watched a very touching video clip on Derek Redmond who competed in 1992 Olympics. Redmond arrived at the 1992 Olympic Summer Games in Barcelona determined to win a medal in the 400. He had been forced to withdraw from the 400 at the 1988 Games in Seoul, only 10 minutes before the race, because of an Achilles tendon injury. He then underwent five surgeries over the next year. This was the same runner who had shattered the British 400-meter record at age 19. So when the 1992 Games arrived, this was his time, his moment, his stage, to show the world how good he was and who he was.

Derek's father Jim had accompanied him to Barcelona, just as he did for all world competitions. They were as close as a father and son could be. Inseparable, really. The best of friends. When Derek ran, it was as if his father were running right next to him. Here is a replay of what happened on that day (from http://sports.espn.go.com/espn/espn25/story?page=moments/94)

THE MOMENT


The day of the race arrives. Father and son reminisce about what it took for Derek to get to this point. They talk about ignoring past heartbreaks, past failures. They agree that if anything bad happens, no matter what it is, Derek has to finish the race, period.

The top four finishers in each of the two semifinal heats qualify for the Olympic final. As race time approaches for the semifinal 400 heat, Jim heads up to his seat at the top of Olympic Stadium, not far from where the Olympic torch was lit just a few days earlier. He is wearing a T-shirt that reads, "Have you hugged your foot today?"

With the help of his father, an injured Derek Redmond completed his race in the 1992 Olympics.
The stadium is packed with 65,000 fans, bracing themselves for one of sport's greatest and most exciting spectacles. The race begins and Redmond breaks from the pack and quickly seizes the lead. "Keep it up, keep it up," Jim says to himself.

Down the backstretch, only 175 meters away from finishing, Redmond is a shoo-in to make the finals. Suddenly, he hears a pop. In his right hamstring. He pulls up lame, as if he had been shot.
"Oh, no," Jim says to himself. His face pales. His leg quivering, Redmond begins hopping on one leg, then slows down and falls to the track. As he lays on the track, clutching his right hamstring, a medical personnel unit runs toward him. At the same time, Jim Redmond, seeing his son in trouble, races down from the top row of the stands, sidestepping people, bumping into others. He has no credential to be on the track, but all he thinks about is getting to his son, to help him up. "I wasn't going to be stopped by anyone," he later tells the media.

On the track, Redmond realizes his dream of an Olympic medal is gone. Tears run down his face. "All I could think was, 'I'm out of the Olympics -- again,'" he would say.
As the medical crew arrives with a stretcher, Redmond tells them, "No, there's no way I'm getting on that stretcher. I'm going to finish my race."

Then, in a moment that will live forever in the minds of millions, Redmond lifts himself to his feet, ever so slowly, and starts hobbling down the track. The other runners have finished the race, with Steve Lewis of the U.S. winning the contest in 44.50. Suddenly, everyone realizes that Redmond isn't dropping out of the race by hobbling off to the side of the track. No, he is actually continuing on one leg. He's going to attempt to hobble his way to the finish line. All by himself. All in the name of pride and heart.


Slowly, the crowd, in total disbelief, rises and begins to roar. The roar gets louder and louder. Through the searing pain, Redmond hears the cheers, but "I wasn't doing it for the crowd," he would later say. "I was doing it for me. Whether people thought I was an idiot or a hero, I wanted to finish the race. I'm the one who has to live with it."

One painful step at a time, each one a little slower and more painful than the one before, his face twisted with pain and tears, Redmond limps onward, and the crowd, many in tears, cheer him on.

Suddenly, Jim Redmond finally gets to the bottom of the stands, leaps over the railing, avoids a security guard, and runs out to his son, with two security people chasing after him. "That's my son out there," he yells back to security, "and I'm going to help him."

Finally, with Derek refusing to surrender and painfully limping along the track, Jim reaches his son at the final curve, about 120 meters from the finish, and wraps his arm around his waist.
"I'm here, son," Jim says softly, hugging his boy. "We'll finish together." Derek puts his arms around his father's shoulders and sobs.

Together, arm in arm, father and son, with 65,000 people cheering, clapping and crying, finish the race, just as they vowed they would. A couple steps from the finish line, and with the crowd in an absolute frenzy, Jim releases the grip he has on his son, so Derek could cross the finish line by himself. Then he throws his arms around Derek again, both crying, along with everyone in the stands and on TV.


"I'm the proudest father alive," he tells the press afterwards, tears in his eyes. "I'm prouder of him than I would have been if he had won the gold medal. It took a lot of guts for him to do what he did."















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If you are interested, here is a link to the video: www.youtube.com/watch?v=_zi0_LjHHN4 or www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDsigCRtoyg

1 Thessalonians 5:11 "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."

Hebrews 12:1(NLT)- "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily hinders our progress. And let us run with endurance the race that God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, on whom our faith depends from start to finish."

Acts 20:24 "However, I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me—the task of testifying to the good news of God's grace."

Dear loved ones, when we are facing the challenges of finishing the races, can we sense our Heavenly Father who is running beside us and cheering us on to the finish line? "I'm here, son," ... "We'll finish together." When we see someone in the race, are we quick to run beside him and offer a shoulder? "I wasn't going to be stopped by anyone." I pray that our Heavenly Father will give us the strength and energy to persevere to the very end.

Friday, August 15, 2008

New Addition




I was debating whether to buy a cradle swing for Emily since we've already had a take-along swing. David said, "I really want Emily to have a swing that can move back and forth and from side to side." That set me off to the shopping mode again! Soon after I did some research and comparison, we bought this cutie for $40 and I can't wait to put Emily in it:


(The lady I bought from had the swing for 6 months and she hardly used it. Everything looks perfect clean and new.)


Wednesday, August 13, 2008

End of 2nd Trimester

This week marks the end of the 2nd trimester. How time flies! David and I finally picked the name for our baby - Emily Mae Woodward. Both Emily and Mae are easy pronunciations for my folks in China. Mae is David's grandma's name. It's also used in my dad's name. In Chinese, it sounds like the character Mei which means beautiful. It also sounds like another Chinese character which symbolizes the strength to prosper in a hash environment. According to the information on the website, Emily weighs almost 2 pounds (like a head of cauliflower) and is about 14 1/2 inches long with her legs extended. She's sleeping and waking at regular intervals, opening and closing her eyes, and perhaps even sucking her fingers. While her lungs are still immature, they would be capable of functioning — with a lot of medical help — if she were to be born now. She kicked and moved from 5:15am to 6:00am this morning. David said she doesn't know the concept of the day and night yet. Otherwise she wouldn't do that to keep her mom awake. I didn't mind about her moving at all. Actually I thought it was me who kept her awake because I constantly tossed and turned through the night to relief the sourness of my sides. Her moves reassured me that she was there OK and made me to worry less about the ambilical cord.

David is really catching up with his Chinese. Last night, we went to Friendspeak. Cloudia invited us to have icecream with our readers afterwards. Maggie rode with me and David. We began to talk in Chinese. David listened all the way and he understood most of our conversation. Sometimes I blurted out some Chinese when I talked to him at home. I didn't realize it. But he caught what I said right away. It was so encouraging! We were happy to see the girl we met at the airport last week came to Friendspeak - She's only been to American for one week!

We were so glad that Syed volunteered to host an Indian student who arrives today to attend UTD. It happened to be Kannan's birthday lunch. When my co-workers asked Syed why he couldn't attend the birthday lunch. He joked that he had a date. He got a phone call and left at around 11:00pm to open his apartment for the Indian guy. My co-workers winked: "It must be his girl-friend!"