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Saturday, October 2, 2010

Sickness, sickness, go away!!

Our house was battling with the sickness almost the whole month of September. During the Labor Day weekend, Andy had a diarrhea and Emily had a cold. Then Andy got a cold despite of our best efforts trying to separate Emily and Andy. Not long after that, I was sick before Andy and Emily got well. The sickness was so disruptive to our daily life that the stress level in the house exceeded the one four months ago when Emily got sick after Andy was born. I found myself unable to handle two sick kids very well. Besides that, we had to do sleep training for Andy again after he was well. (It was hard enough to do that once, not to mention twice within a couple of months. Little Andy only had three weeks of perfect peaceful sleeping in between. Sigh!) I prayed that the sickness will not visit our family again this year - we had our quota already.

Other than the sickness, there was a lot to update on Emily and Andy. Andy turns five months old today. He loves playing in his play mat and travel swing. He enjoys the mobile and the soother (he turned on the soother himself sometimes). A couple of his favorite things are: a smiling face or a silly face, a song or the sheep sound, a kissing sound (or maybe a kiss?),
the yellow bear album (his most favorite),
and the smiling octopus. He smiles at them constantly.
What I love the most are his sweet smiles, bright eyes and broad voice. Here are some information on Andy by the numbers:
90 percentile on weight; 95 percentile on height; 11 hours of sleep in a row (max); 2.5 hours average between feedings; 5 oz per feeding; 3-4 naps a day; 2 sleep trainings; infinite number of kisses ...
The following pictures just reminded me so much of Emily when she was this age: same toys, same looks and same smiles ...
Emily started to play "make believe" on her own and she loves hide and seek game. One day I caught her talking to her doll, "Are you hungry? ... Want some milk? ... No? ... OK!" She also started to recognize her baby pictures. Before this she always told others "That's Andy." Now she says "It's Emily." (Well, she can't quite pronounce the "l" sound yet. She says "w" sound instead of "l" sound.") She is an easy conversationer. One day she saw the mosquito bite on my knee. She crawled over and touched it. "(Emily:) Mommy, mosquito bite!" "(Me:)Yes, I know." "(Emily:)Oh, I'm sorry! Huuu--" She began to blow on my knee. Isn't she sweet?! Another day when I was feeding Andy with the bottle, the water on the bottle dropped onto Andy's clothes. Emily came over and said, "Andy's clothes are wet!" "Really?" I asked. "Yeah!" She pointed to the wet spot. She always keeps an eye on her brother. She often gave compliment on the food she ate "Hmm, yummy!" or "Oh, it smells good." She even brought David's books to him Sunday afternoon and said, "Daddy's FriendSpeak!" This little girl just amazes us every day. One afternoon I was cleaning her car seat and threw away some puffs that dropped in the seat for the birds. She picked up the puffs and ran towards the jogging trail. She raised her handful of puffs and said to the ladies who were walking their dog, "This is for doggie!" The two ladies stopped and waved at her before they went on. Precious!
These are Emily's new friends:
Puppy dog from Macy's (the clerk gave to her when she was shopping with David)
Turtle night light that we got for Andy
Rathyon bear from David's office
Emily also got a box of Easter eggs with toys in them from a lady driving by the neighborhood. She thought Emily was precious when she saw her playing in the front yard so she jumped out of her car and gave Emily a box of new toys.
Several areas that Emily is still working on are: she still is confused about the colors; she still doesn't know the meaning of "No" when she said it; she still doesn't use the directional words correctly. For example, she says "Mommy, help you - It's heavy!" when she actually asks me to help her. Emily knows all the upper case letters. We started working on the lower case letters. We do one letter each week and plan our activities around that letter. So far we did "A a" and "B b".
"A (a) is for Apple": We learned the trinity of God using the apple analogy.
We colored the apple picture.
We ate the apples (Emily examined the apple and said, "Mommy, take the skin off!" because she never ate an apple with skin before)
And watched the video about Animals.
We also studied the verse "Ask and you will receive."
"B is for Bug and Bean":
We played with beans and watched the sesame street videos on the bugs "Spring Time". Emily had never watched any videos or TV except "Praise Baby" and "Signing Time" before. She loved the sesame street video right off the start. We may begin to introduce her to other videos since she's almost two years old now. The verse about B is "All things are possible to him who Believes.”
Shovel beans
Feel and drop the beans
Make rattles out of beans
Besides the weekly FriendSpeak sessions, Emily attended many events with Daddy. She attended the September birthday party held by Janice and Clay; she went to David's co-worker's going away party at his office; she enjoyed the LST Harvest/benefit dinner; and she went to Jenny's house warming party.
Nathan and Amy came to see Andy
Visit Daddy's office
October marked the end of the helping from the girls. We are all sad about it. I can't imagine what my days would have been like without their help. Emily learned so much from them and had so much fun. We thank God for sending them to us when we needed the most. We'll forever remember them and remember the time we had together. When we said bye bye to the girls on their last days, Emily chased them to the street and waved until their cars disappeared. Our tears welled up. Hopefully they will still come to see us when they have time.
Last day with Weiting
With Andrea
As far as David, you can already tell that he had a busy month from Emily's status. Besides all those activities, he also went to the State Fair and the Rush concert as part of his birthday gift. I was glad that he enjoyed all of them. As far as me, life gradually rolled into the normal state. And, my mom may come to visit us if she gets the visa. We are all really excited about it.
Here are some random pictures of the month:
Ready for a ride


Lefty or righty?

Still flexible

I'm in bumboo now~

The cool guy
Perform "Itsy bitsy spider" (We also have a video version of the whole performance. So cute!)
Emily plays on her own when I put Andy down to sleep (I'm so glad that she always obeyed my command and stayed where I asked her to until I came out of Andy's room)


A new fruit we tried this month - the dragon fruit


Sibling love (Emily stole a kiss from her brother when I was changing diaper for Andy)

Happy Girl




Friday, September 10, 2010

August Happening and Labor Day Weekend

August has been a great month for us. Our daily life is more structured and more predictable. Andy turned four months old on David's birthday. He is such a wonderful sleeper. He takes three naps a day with at least one 3-hour nap. Occasionally he takes four mini naps or two super long naps. At night, he usually sleeps from 6:30pm to 7:30am with one night feeding. He can put himself to sleep unassisted. Sometimes if he is not sleepy enough, we would turn the Rainforest soother on. He falls asleep on it pretty easily. He is such a happy boy that he smiles to everybody. At his four-month checkup, he smiled big to the doctor and smiled all the time to the nurse when she took her temperature. The doctor asked me:" Is he always this happy?" He smiles a lot! He also talks a lot. We have many videos of him talking. It is so fun to be with our little sweet boy! He is just a perfect four month old!




Emily has adjusted to the life of a brother completely. She introduces Andy to everyone she meets at church. We cut down on the time that uses help. So the girls only come in the afternoons to play with Emily. We are so thankful for their help. They love Emily and Emily loves them. I use Andy's afternoon nap time to cook dinners. For the mornings, Andy normally get up at 7:30am. I put him down for a nap at 8:30-9:00 and get Emily up. Andy wakes up between 11:00-12:00. Then Emily goes down for her nap at 12:30pm. Sunday afternoons David has been taking Emily to FriendSpeak with him. Emily really enjoys it. Weiting told me that Emily helps to push the chairs back under the tables without anyone's prompting. I guess she must have seen others doing that. She helps to put the pencils back in the holes pews after pews after church service also.




Emily talks in (five or six words) sentences all the time now. She loves carrying conversations or repeating what she heard from others. She likes anything sweet. I made a chocolate cake for David's birthday. Emily asked for it everyday. One day David gave her a spoonful of cake. She took half spoon in her mouth. David held the other half spoon of cake. Emily said to him "Daddy, put it on my plate." After dinner, I took her bib off. She murmured "Mommy, it hurt" because the bib caught her hair. I love her soft and sweet voice.

Emily also knows the difference between mommy time and the time she plays with the girls. In the mornings she normally plays independantly, either reading on her own or playing with her toys. She seldom bothers me. In the afternoons she gets on all her toes to play with the girls. She told them "Mommy is busy!" One morning when I was washing bottles, I saw her running after the ball saying "I'm gonna catch you, blue ball! I'm gonna catch you." Another day, Andy was crying hungry while I was preparing for milk in the kitchen. Emily ran over to her brother and put her lovey blankie on Andy to make him feel better. David used to call Emily "Sugar". One morning when I walked into Emily's room, without looking Emily said, "Hi Sugar Daddy!" Every time when we walked by Andy's room, Emily puts her finger at her mouth and says, "Shhhh, Andy is sleeping!"

It was sweet of Angela and Dawn to bring their kids to see us and play for a while. I was glad to see that Emily was ready to share all her toys with others. David's cousin Gregg and Shannon came to see Andy. David's old friend Jeff Davis and our FriendSpeak friends Mike and Grace visited us also. Leslie came over and shared his LST trip photos in Brazil. We really enjoyed their company.

Gayla took Emily out for "Auntie Gayla's Day" twice. Emily had a great time with Gayla's family and Stolte's kids. One Sunday after church, Marv (Gayla's father-in-law) came over just to tell me that everyone in his family thinks Emily was the perfect child. He's never seen a kid that well-behaved in her age. He said he wanted to thank me for her. He also waited to tell David the same thing after David finish talking with others. Many people including the girls coming to our house told us nice things about Emily all the time. But we can't take the credit for our precious girl. We thank God for giving us such a blessing that literally brightens our life every day. And we thank our friends who love on us selfishlessly so our kids have a positive and loving take on the world around them.

Besides working hard and taking care of the kids, David has been working around the house recently. Our kitchen sink faucet broke. The leaking water damaged the board underneath the sink. Our friend David North offered help. They spent two nights to build a brand new platform and replaced the damaged faucet. That saved us hundreds of dollars. Next project will be fixing the errosion at the corner of our house. There have been several new cracks inside the house this summer. We may have to do something to prevent the foundation to have more problems.

We have trouble uploading videos recently. So here are some pictures:

My sunshine

Like Father, like son

A little talk in the morning

I love my brother

Go out shopping with Mommy

Auntie Gayla's Day with Mary Allen

With Lexie and Ryan

Building Lego with Ziyun

Fun with Cindy

Emily loves Andrea ("an-d-wa" per Emily)

Weiting says Emily should go to the Ballet school

Weiting encouraged Emily to play with our guest Ethan

Here they played together

Emily listened to Weiting's MP3

Emily would love to live in the wagon if the garage is not too hot

Emily is busy on the phone

Emily fed Big Bird her puffs(she took out the puffs and ate them after she found out Big Bird didn't like the puffs)

Emily changes diapers for her baby the first thing in the morning after she wakes him up

Emily read books on her own when mommy was taking care of Andy

Dance! Dance! Dance! Our little girl loves dancing. I'm considering sending her to a dancing studio before long

Happy Birthday Sweetheart!

During Labor Day weekend, Grandpa Jack, Amy, Kendall, and their kids came for the holiday and for David's birthday. Emily had fun playing with other kids. Unfortunately she got a bad cold on Sunday and Andy got a bad diarrhea on Saturday. It's been a stressful week as we are trying hard not to let Emily and Andy cross-contaminate each other. Hopefully they both will get over the sickness next week. Here are a few pictures from the Labor Day weekend as well:

Reading with Grandpa

Playing with Austin

Playing with Chloe